Ok well, i’ve known this girl since sophomore year of high school (graduated 2008). Back then she was one of those students who was all about her schoolwork and always used to get into huge arguments with all my friends in class because she had pretty much opposite opinions on things than we did, and because we were, as she puts it, “the cool kids” who didn’t really try very hard even though we were just as smart as her. Basically she hated us and we hated her but I always thought she was good looking and had talked about it with those same friends before.
Anyway I saw her at a party the other night (nothing new) but somehow her and I ended up on the front porch goin’ at it pretty aggressively, and then later on in other places. But anyways she left that night without much happening and then she calls me the next day and comes to my house. I tried to take things further, but then she says she doesn’t want to do anything she’ll regret e.t.c. So she comes over twice and spends the night after that, and we’re still keeping it above the belt. Anyways we did not end up taking it further and then she leaves to go back to the east coast. I figured “oh well, it is what it is” and decided to just leave it at that. But then the other day she texts me asking if it would be weird if she sent me something (by mail). I said, no it wouldn’t, mostly just because i’m curious about what it would be. I’m incredibly confused right now because I was kinda thinking we would just have a short fling sort of thing but I have no idea what this girl wants now or how to read her. Does anybody have any insight into 1. What she might be sending me/why? 2. If you think she wants to be in a relationship (yikes)?
And just to let all you people know i’m not lying to her or leading her on. I’ve been completely open with the fact that I’m just used to getting with a girl for awhile and having a kind of casual/physical relationship. I just don’t want all of the things that go along with a committed relationship. I was in one for good awhile and i’m honestly just burnt out on it right now.
Originally posted 2010-06-08 21:06:35. Republished by Blog Post Promoter